40 Ways with Jesus
Forty simple invitations to slow down and be with Him, right in the middle of your everyday life.
Get quiet with your Bible and invite Jesus to speak to your heart.
Example: Sit in your favorite chair with your Bible closed on your lap. Before you open it, just breathe and say, “Jesus, I’m here. Speak to me.”
Find your chair, the one that holds you like an old friend. Lay your Bible in your lap and let the quiet settle over you like a warm blanket. Before you open a single page, just whisper that you are here and you are listening. He has been waiting for this moment with you all day.
Read Matthew 6 and give God the worries you’ve been trying to carry on your own.
Example: After reading about worry in Matthew 6, write down the three things keeping you up at night on a piece of paper, then pray over each one and tear the paper up as a symbol of release.
Open to Matthew 6 and read it like a letter written just for you. When you feel that knot in your chest, name it on paper, every worry that steals your sleep. Then hand the paper to God in prayer, and tear it up like letting birds out of a cage. Watch them fly. They were never yours to carry.
Pray for your future, your family, and the people God will bring into your life.
Example: Pray by name for your children, your future grandchildren, and even the friends you haven’t met yet who will need your encouragement one day.
Close your eyes and picture the faces you love, one by one, like turning pages in a photo album. Pray over the dreams you have not seen come true yet, the way a gardener waters seeds before they sprout. Then make room in your heart for the people you have not met yet, the ones God is already preparing for you.
Go for a walk and talk to Jesus about whatever is on your heart.
Example: Take your morning walk and instead of listening to a podcast, just talk out loud to Jesus about your week, your fears, your hopes, like He’s walking beside you.
Lace up your shoes and leave the earbuds on the counter. The sidewalk is your sanctuary today. Talk to Him the way you would talk to a friend walking beside you, about the good, the hard, the ordinary. Then hush for a while and let Him walk with you in the quiet too.
Open your Bible and ask the Holy Spirit to help you understand what you’re reading.
Example: Before reading Romans 8, pray: “Holy Spirit, open my eyes. Show me what I need today.” Then read slowly, stopping when a verse catches you.
Before you read a single verse, ask the Holy Spirit to sit beside you like a teacher with infinite patience. Open to a Psalm or a chapter of John and read the way you would savor a good meal, slowly. When a verse catches your heart, stay there. That is Him tapping you on the shoulder.
Thank God for 10 blessings you sometimes take for granted.
Example: Your morning coffee, the roof over your head, a text from a friend, clean water, the ability to walk, laughter, a warm bed, sunshine, music, breath in your lungs.
Grab a scrap of paper and number it one through ten. Write down the ordinary mercies, your morning coffee, the roof that kept the rain off last night, the text from a friend that made you smile. Read them back out loud like a love letter to God. The small things are where His fingerprints show clearest.
Ask Jesus to help you love Him more in the way you live each day.
Example: Pray: “Jesus, show me one way I can love You better today, in how I speak to my family, how I spend my time, how I treat strangers.”
In the stillness of morning, ask Him to show you one way to love Him better today. It might be in how you speak to the people at your kitchen table, or how you spend an unhurried hour. Hold that one intention gently through the day like a smooth stone in your pocket.
Put on worship music and sing praises to Him, right where you are.
Example: Turn on your favorite worship playlist while you do the dishes, and sing along like nobody’s watching, because it’s just you and Him.
Turn the music up while you stand at the sink, and let your voice rise with the steam. You are not performing. You are a child singing to her Father while she does the dishes. If a song finds the tender place in you, play it again. Stay in that room as long as you need.
Tell Jesus what’s hurting your heart, even when you don’t have the right words.
Example: Sit on your bed, hold a pillow, and just say: “Jesus, it hurts. I don’t know how to explain it, but You know.” Then sit in the silence with Him.
Go where no one can hear you, and let the brave, messy truth come out. You do not need pretty words. He understands the language of tears better than anyone. Sit with Him in the silence afterward, the way you would sit with a friend who just holds your hand.
When life feels heavy, take a moment to sit with Him instead of trying to figure everything out yourself.
Example: Instead of spiraling over a problem at midnight, sit in your living room, light a candle, and just say: “Jesus, I’m going to sit here with You instead of trying to solve this.”
When your mind is racing at midnight trying to solve everything, set the problem down like a heavy grocery bag on the counter. Sit with Him instead. You do not have to untangle it tonight. His peace can do in ten quiet minutes what your worrying cannot do all night.
Ask God to show you where you need to grow and give you the grace to change.
Example: Pray: “God, show me the one area where I’m stuck. Is it patience? Forgiveness? Trust?” Then listen without defending yourself.
Ask Him with an open heart, the way you would ask a trusted friend for honest counsel. When something surfaces, resist the urge to explain it away. Just receive it like a seed He is placing in your palm. Ask for grace, then take one small step this week and watch what grows.
Slow down, enjoy your meal, and thank God for providing what you need.
Example: Before dinner, put your phone away, look at your food, and genuinely thank God for every part of it, the hands that grew it, the ability to taste it, the provision.
Before you pick up your fork, pause and really look at what is in front of you. Think of the hands that planted it, picked it, prepared it. Taste each bite like it matters, because it does. This meal is provision. This is God feeding you, the way He always has.
Ask the Lord to guide your steps and show you where He wants you to go.
Example: If you’re facing a decision about a job, a move, or a relationship, pray: “Lord, I don’t want to go where You haven’t called me. Show me Your path.”
Bring your decision to Him the way you would bring a map to a guide who knows the road. Lay out the paths in front of you and ask which one brings peace when you pray over it. Then wait. The right door opens in His timing, not yours, and it is worth the wait.
Walk through your home and thank Jesus for the blessings He has placed in your life.
Example: Walk room by room, thanking Him for the kitchen where you feed people you love, the bedroom where you rest, the photos on the wall of people who matter.
Wander through your home slowly, room by room, the way you would walk through a garden you planted yourself. In the kitchen, thank Him for the meals shared around your table. In the bedroom, thank Him for rest. Touch the doorframes and remember: this is holy ground.
Spend time in prayer simply thanking Him for who He is and all He has done.
Example: Set a timer for 10 minutes. For those 10 minutes, only say thank you. No requests. Just gratitude for who God is.
Set aside ten minutes with no requests, no agenda, just thanks. Start with who He is, faithful, kind, near. Then thank Him for what He has carried you through. If you run out of words, let the silence be your amen. He hears gratitude even when it has no sentences.
Remind yourself that you don’t have to have everything figured out to rest in His love.
Example: When anxiety about the future creeps in, place your hand on your heart and say: “I don’t have to know how this ends. I am loved right now.”
When the future feels like a fog you cannot see through, place your hand on your heart and breathe. You do not need the whole map to take the next step. You are held right now, in this moment, by hands that have never dropped you. Rest there.
Go to church with an open heart, ready to worship and learn more about Him.
Example: Before the service starts, pray in your seat: “God, I’m here. Speak to me today. I’m ready to hear whatever You want to say.”
Before the first song, settle into your seat and tell God you are here with open hands. Sing like the words were written for you today, because they were. When the message stirs something in you, write it down before it slips away. Ask Him what He wants you to do with it this week.
Write down the dreams on your heart and ask God to guide you according to His will.
Example: In a journal, write: “The dreams I carry are…” and list them, the book, the ministry, the trip, the reconciliation. Then pray over each one.
Open a blank page and let the dreams spill out, the big ones and the quiet ones you barely admit to yourself. Write them the way a child writes a wish list, honestly and without editing. Then pray over each one and hand them to God. Revisit the page in a month and watch for His fingerprints.
Do something kind for someone without needing anyone else to know.
Example: Pay for the car behind you in the drive-thru. Leave an encouraging note on a coworker’s desk. Text someone: “Thinking of you today.”
Think of one person who could use a little light today, and do something small and secret for them. A note tucked where they will find it. A coffee paid for with no name attached. Tell no one. Let it be just between you and Jesus, like a whispered secret that makes you both smile.
Give Jesus one fear you’ve been holding onto and choose to trust Him with it.
Example: If you’ve been afraid about a health issue, a child’s choices, or finances, say out loud: “Jesus, I’m giving You my fear about [name it]. I choose to trust You.”
Name the fear out loud, specifically, the way you would name a weed before you pull it. Then place it in His hands and choose trust, even if your voice shakes a little. When the fear creeps back tomorrow, remind it that it has already been handed over. Write down the date. You will want to remember this day.
Start your morning with prayer and Scripture before the busyness of the day begins.
Example: Before you check your phone, sit up in bed and pray: “Good morning, Jesus. This day is Yours.” Then read one Psalm.
Before the phone lights up your face, let His light reach you first. Sit up in bed and greet Him like the most important appointment of your day, because He is. Read one Psalm and let a single verse walk with you through everything the day brings.
Write a letter to Jesus and be honest about what you’re going through.
Example: “Dear Jesus, I’m writing because I don’t know who else to tell. Here’s what’s really going on…” Then pour it all out on paper.
Pick up a pen and write to Him the way you would write to someone who loves you most. No filter, no pretty performance, just the honest truth of what is going on inside you. Tell Him the things you are afraid to say out loud. Keep the letter. One day you will read it and weep at how far He brought you.
Read a Psalm and turn what you read into a prayer of your own.
Example: Read Psalm 23, then pray: “Lord, You are my shepherd. Right now I need You to lead me beside still waters because my mind won’t stop racing.”
Read a Psalm twice, slowly, the way you would read a letter from someone you love. When a verse glows a little brighter than the rest, take David’s words and make them your own. Pray them back to God out loud. Scripture was always meant to be a conversation, not just a reading.
Spend time outside appreciating the beauty of creation and thanking the Creator.
Example: Sit in your backyard or a park. Look at the sky, the trees, the birds. Say: “God, You made all of this. You made me too. Thank You.”
Step outside and leave the noise behind. Look at the sky like you are seeing it for the first time, because in a way, you are. Notice the birdsong, the way light moves through leaves, the smell of earth after rain. Each one is God saying, I made this, and I made you, and I delight in both.
Ask God to help you forgive someone, even when it’s not easy.
Example: If someone hurt you deeply, pray: “God, I don’t feel like forgiving them. But I’m asking You to help me want to. Start with my heart.”
This one is hard, and it is okay to say so. Name the person and the hurt honestly before God, the way you would show a wound to a gentle doctor. Ask Him to soften your heart, even if you do not feel ready. Forgiveness is often a road you walk one prayer at a time, and He walks it with you.
Put your phone away for an hour and give Jesus your undivided attention.
Example: Put your phone in another room for one hour. Sit with your Bible, a journal, or just silence. Notice how hard it is, and how good it feels.
Choose one hour and put your phone in another room, out of reach, out of mind. Sit with Jesus and notice how loud the quiet feels at first, like stepping into a still lake. Stay. Beneath the restlessness is a voice you have been too busy to hear, and He has been waiting to speak.
Ask the Holy Spirit to show you what you need to release so you can grow closer to God.
Example: Pray: “Holy Spirit, what am I holding onto that’s keeping me from You? Is it bitterness? Control? A habit?” Then listen.
Ask Him gently, the way you would ask a friend to help you clean out a crowded closet. When something surfaces, a grudge, a habit, a need to control everything, do not argue with it. Just open your hands and let it go. Make room for Him to fill the empty shelf with something better.
Look back on your life and remember the times God carried you through.
Example: Think about the hardest season you’ve survived, the loss, the illness, the dark night. Say: “God, You carried me then. You’ll carry me now.”
Think back to the season you thought would break you, the loss, the long night, the impossible thing. You are still here. He carried you then, the way a father carries a sleeping child up the stairs. Write those moments down. They are your stones of remembrance for the next hard road.
Make an ordinary moment an opportunity to praise Jesus for His goodness.
Example: While folding laundry, say: “Jesus, thank You for clothes to fold and a home to fold them in.” Turn the mundane into worship.
Take the most ordinary task on your list today, folding laundry, washing dishes, driving to the store, and turn it into a chapel. Thank Him for the clothes, the warm water, the car that runs. The sacred was never confined to Sunday. It lives in your kitchen too.
Before going to sleep, thank Him for bringing you through another day.
Example: Lying in bed, replay your day and thank God for three specific moments, a kind word, a meal, making it through something hard.
When your head hits the pillow, let gratitude be the last thing on your mind instead of worry. Replay the day and find three moments where His hand was in it, a kind word, a meal, the strength to get through something hard. Fall asleep the way a child falls asleep in a safe house, at peace.
Read a chapter of the Bible and think about how you can apply it to your life.
Example: Read James 1. When you get to “be quick to listen, slow to speak,” ask: “Where do I need to listen more and talk less this week?”
Read a whole chapter in one sitting, the way you would finish a good story. Then ask the honest question: what does this change about my Tuesday? Find one specific thing, one conversation, one habit, one apology, and do it this week. Scripture was never meant to stay on the page.
Talk to Jesus about the things you’ve been afraid to say out loud.
Example: The doubt you’ve been hiding, the anger at God you feel guilty about, the secret you’re ashamed of. Say it to Him. He’s not shocked.
Go somewhere no one can hear, and say the thing you have been carrying in silence. The doubt. The anger. The secret shame. Say it out loud and watch: He does not flinch. He does not leave the room. He leans closer, because honesty is the doorway to healing.
Pray for someone who has hurt you and ask God to help you respond with grace.
Example: Pray: “God, I pray for [name]. Bless them. Help me respond with grace the next time I see them, not with the anger I feel right now.”
This is one of the bravest prayers you will ever pray. Ask God to bless the person who wounded you, and mean it as much as you can today. Then ask Him to go before you the next time you see them, to steady your heart and sweeten your words. Grace is a muscle. This is how it grows.
Take a slow walk and notice the little blessings God puts in your path.
Example: On your walk, notice the flowers pushing through concrete, a child’s laughter, the warmth of sun on your face. Each one is a love note.
Walk slowly, like you have nowhere to be, because for these minutes you do not. Notice the flower pushing through the sidewalk crack, the sun warming your shoulders, the laughter drifting from an open window. Each one is a love note tucked into your path. Collect them all.
Ask Jesus to show you how you can serve others and reflect His love today.
Example: Pray in the morning: “Jesus, show me one person to serve today.” Then watch for the opportunity. It usually comes.
In the morning, ask Him to open your eyes to one person who needs love today. Then go about your day watching, the way you would watch for a friend in a crowd. When you see the need, do not overthink it. A text, a meal, ten minutes of listening. Small seeds grow the tallest trees.
Surrender the answer you’ve been waiting for and trust God’s timing, even when you don’t understand it.
Example: If you’ve been waiting for healing, a breakthrough, or a door to open, pray: “God, I’m surrendering my timeline. I trust Yours, even though I don’t understand the wait.”
Name the thing you have been waiting for, the healing, the breakthrough, the open door. Then loosen your grip on the timeline the way you would loosen your grip on a kite string, trusting the wind knows better than you do. His timing has never been late, even when it felt slow.
Spend time with a verse that challenges you and ask God to help you live it out.
Example: If “love your enemies” (Matthew 5:44) challenges you, sit with it. Ask: “God, what does this actually look like in my life? Help me do it.”
Find the verse that makes you squirm a little, the one you usually skip past. Sit with it the way you would sit with a hard truth from someone who loves you. Ask God what it would look like to actually live it this week. Then ask for courage, because obedience often needs it.
Remember the prayers you once prayed through tears and thank God for how He has worked in your life.
Example: Think back to the desperate prayer you prayed a year ago, the one where you sobbed. Look at where you are now. Thank Him for how He answered, even if differently than you expected.
Think back to the prayer you sobbed through, the one where you could barely get the words out. Look at where you are now. See what He did, even if it looked nothing like what you asked for. Thank Him specifically. Those tearstained prayers are the milestones on your map.
Sit with worship music, quiet your thoughts, and focus on the One who deserves your praise.
Example: Dim the lights, put on an instrumental worship playlist, close your eyes, and just focus on Jesus. No singing, no words, just being in His presence.
Dim the lights and let soft music fill the room like evening settling over a field. Close your eyes and just be with Him. No singing required, no words needed. When your thoughts scatter like startled birds, gently call them back. He is not in a hurry, and neither are you.
Ask Jesus, “What are You teaching me in this season, and how can I become more like You?”
Example: In a quiet moment, pray: “Jesus, what are You teaching me right now? In this hard season, in this good season, what do You want me to learn?”
In a quiet, unhurried moment, ask Him the big question: what are You teaching me right now? Listen without rushing to the next thing. Write down what rises to the surface. This season, hard or sweet, is a classroom, and He is the gentlest teacher you will ever have.
A little reminder for your heart
Spending time with Jesus isn’t about doing all the right things or checking off a list. It’s about building a relationship with Him, learning His Word, trusting His plan, and making room for Him in the middle of our everyday lives.
Some days, that might look like reading your Bible and praying. Other days, it might mean crying out to Him, thanking Him for the little things, or simply sitting quietly in His presence.
You don’t have to wait until life slows down or everything feels right to spend time with Jesus. Invite Him into the day you’re living right now.
He wants your heart, not a perfect routine.
